LOTHA

Introduction

I often feel the weight of disconnection, the sense of being apart in a society grappling with a profound crisis. This void, this loneliness, sometimes ungrounds me, especially during relational exchanges -whether friendly, professional, or casual. It feels like the world around me judges, pushes me to fit into a mold, a way of thinking, a paradigm, a box. Perhaps you’ve felt these emotions too, this unease, this discomfort in a world that seems to be losing its bearings amid ecological crises, geopolitical tensions, wars, and increasingly strained human relationships. It’s not easy to live with.
Sometimes, this weight drags down our mood, our energy, and our body makes us feel it -through our physiology, our brain, our heart, our gut. Yet, over time, I’ve learned to recognize this feeling, not as a fate to endure, but as a unique reality to embrace. It’s not a cry for help but a sign that we’re not alone in experiencing this disconnect.

How to Shift Your Perspective?

For most of us, the feeling of isolation is initially a tough experience. At first, it weighs heavily, the body feels it intensely, emotions spiral, and our physiology speaks through tension, discomfort, or even suffering. It can feel overwhelming, as if this weight might crush us. Over time, we start to get used to it, accept it as normal, and integrate it into our daily lives.
But what I want to emphasize is that this feeling, in its essence, is neither good nor bad. It becomes negative when it impacts our quality of life, mental health, energetic balance, or spiritual well-being -when it generates toxic emotions we don’t know how to manage.
On the flip side, if we strip away those aspects, this feeling can be a valuable signal, an invitation to reposition ourselves, to assert who we are, to embrace ourselves outside the norms imposed by a sick society.
If this society sets toxic rules, why not create our own norms? Why not redefine what integration, success, and social achievement mean for us? This isn’t about rejecting society out of defiance or masking pain with a persona. It’s a sincere invitation to carve your own path, to build markers that honor your inner world, so the outer world can align with this new energy of vibrational emancipation.

How to Fully Embrace This Feeling?

A conscious choice that transforms your stance
When you accept this feeling of isolation -acknowledging that you don’t quite fit society’s norms- a profound shift happens. You say to yourself:
“Yes, I feel this disconnect, it’s hard, I don’t align with this society, and I sometimes suffer from rejection, humiliation, or criticism.”
The key is to accept this disconnect without taking on the burden of society’s judgments or wounds. It’s normal, human, to feel these emotions. It’s not about denying or justifying your suffering but simply welcoming it as it is. Maybe you have few close friends, your opinions often differ, or you feel different in daily interactions. So what?
Making this a conscious choice -a decision to fully embrace this reality-triggers a true paradigm shift. Your stance becomes more authentic, assertive, and congruent. You think what you say, and you do what you think. This choice is a strength, an act of courage in a society that prizes conformity. It protects your mental, spiritual, and energetic integrity.

To others, you become “dangerous” -not out of provocation, but because you refuse to compromise on your core values, embodying them fully. You carve your own path without seeking approval, without playing a role, without wearing a mask. This is not just courage but sovereignty.
Your presence challenges and threatens others’ certainties, proving their truth isn’t absolute. This inner sovereignty strengthens your grounding and presence.
It’s an act of sovereignty that society perceives as a threat. And that’s precisely where the key to your true fulfillment lies -a secret society will never tell you.
They may attack your stance, yes… but they can never steal what makes you so exceptional.

Conclusion

For this final point, I offer a conclusion that invites deep, personal reflection without aiming to summarize everything or impose a rigid view. Instead of questioning the conventional idea of social integration in a purely logical or argumentative way, I invite you to open a door: the door to defining your own norms, your own meaning of integration and success in society. Conforming to established standards -having a stable job, being married, owning a home- doesn’t necessarily equate to happiness or inner health. Many people check those boxes. Are they all fulfilled?
The idea is to free yourself from imposed models and create your own path, your own vision of fulfillment that’s uniquely and authentically yours. It’s an invitation to reconnect with yourself, your core values, and build a version of success that reflects you, far from societal dictates. Align your visions and ideas of integrity and success. That’s where the keys to your freedom lie.

Lotha